Changing your life is usually an accumulation of small steps
toward a pre-defined detailed target. To achieve this change, you need to ask
questions to yourself and you need to take actions according to your answers.
Here are generic but very tough 5 questions to start with:
1. Who do you want to be in 5 years? Give as much
details as possible.
- Where are you going to live?
- What kind of house are you living in?
- What kind of lifestyle are you going to have?
- How is your relations with your family & friends?
- What is going to be your job?
- How many hours are you going to work a week?
- How many books are you going to read a year etc.
2. What is the gap between your 5 years ahead life and today?
Again, think as detailed as possible. Think in terms of all aspects of your
life as mentioned in the above question.
3. What are you going to do to close the gap?
- What do you need to learn?
- Who are the people you need to meet?
- Who is going to be your role model?
- Which books do you need to read?
- What are the places you need to visit?
- How are you going to improve & change your relationships?
- Who are the people you need to bring into your life and who are the people you need to take out? etc…
- What are the things you need to stop doing?
4. What are the small steps that you can take to close
the gaps? For example if you need to learn something to close the gap, where
can you start? Are you going to start the subject through a Mooc or are you
going to approach an expert on the topic?
5. Among the small steps you have decided, what are you going
to start doing tomorrow morning and create new habits? Moreover, to reach
target life, what are the small habits you are going to stop doing as of tomorrow
morning?
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